Will This Help Me Live Longer? The Question That Clears All Fear (aka Don’t Sell Your Unicorn for a Hot Dog)

You can do anything on Earth – as long as you’re still here!! It’s time for some new choices, folks…

Have you felt the Shi(f)t? It’s been storm season for me this year, no surprise as it’s a Master 11 Universal Year of Wake Ups & Breakups (see this forecast and relationships post).

My chart is full of 11’s and if you see 11:11 too, you probably have Master Numbers too (either in your numerology or your close tribe). 

As I’ve written, 11 looks like an equals sign or a bridge between worlds. It can bring oneness or division (a split personality), depending on how you wield it. It’s like a light sabre from Star Wars. You can use it to conquer darkness, or to poke yourself in the foot! Ideally, 11 acts as a river of change (CHANGE adds to 29/11) returning us to a state of flow, also called the middle way, the Tao, the Source, the Vortex, etc.

Video of this blog! Transcript with time stamps at the end of this post

After months of respiratory bugs, sleep deprivation, breastfeeding challenges, a family death and other tests, I ran out of patience on Tuesday and started crying for help from my Soul. From experience, I knew this would be productive. When climbing mountains, you know the summit is close when it’s this scary. Thanks to some dancing, Kris’s cooking, baby hugs, my circle of healers, mental health safety net, meditation and music*, I’ve passed through the Void, and am now in a lush valley of massive opportunity.

*Here are the artists who’ve helped me to lift my vibration:
Israel ‘IZ’ Kamakawiwoʻole’s Somewhere Over the Rainbow and Hawai’i 78 album, Playing for a Change’s Sittin’ on the Dock of the BayDon’t Worry Be Happy and Island Style, this flash mob of Let it Be, this flash mob of Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, plus music from other 29/11 lifepaths like Chris Martin (Coldplay), Gwen Stefani (No Doubt) and Leonard Cohen.

Connecting with people who’s chosen the same lifepath catapaults you back into your mission, so it’s one of the practices I most recommend to clients. Find your lifepath I’ve also been reading A Course in Miracles, books by Osho and Tony Attwood’s work on Asperger’s to move myself up a level in consciousness. (I have autism.)

As a result, I made the decision to stop accepting rubbish and now ask 3 questions of everything that comes my way.

1) Will this help me live longer? (Will it help me to complete my purpose and die with a smile?)
2) Will this nourish my marriage to Kris, and
3) Will this give my children a better future?
Sometimes, I also add, rather cheekily,
4) Will this get me to Hawai’i quicker? (I’d love to visit Kauai).

Wow, did that work! I went from feeling like a drowned rat facing down an army of ghouls, to a bootylicious Alicia Keys singing Girl on Fire. They say that fear is simply the absence of love. Well, doing this exercise has overfilled my tank again!

Tip: I helped things along by taking the powerful Earth Essence by ABFE (see my reading for Founder Ian White) – here is a review of his White Light Essences range (White Light adds to 11:11 in numerology). My alchemy coach Lotus Kruse has also been a weekly support – she asks clients to commit to a minimum of 12 months coaching, now that’s confidence! She works by phone, which I’ve adopted – see my update on returning to Skype. Crystal healings have also cleared the chaos, I’ve worked with Deniz Akan for years now.

Too many people in the personal growth industry sell quick fixes and, just like one-night stands, they don’t work for me. I want love for a lifetime, not fake cheer. See my post on avoiding spiritual white-washers.

So – my invitation to you in this global time of Soul recovery is to ask, ‘will this help me live longer?’ for the next day/ week/ month/ year… for example:
Will this food help me live longer?
Will this relationship help me live longer?
Will this job help me live longer?
Will this business help me live longer?

Will this house help me live longer? (See my post on house numerology and the energies of rooms)
And, if you’re wanting to work with me (hehe), will a series of readings help me live longer?

Wait for an answer from your body, not your mind (which is a great follower but a short-sighted leader…)

Here’s how I help clients to find their truths. I call this exercise ‘Holding Space* for Your Heart’. This is demonstrated from 9min8sec into the video
-Sit or stand with both feet on the ground, preferably barefoot outside
-Take 3 or 4 slow inhalations and exhalations
-Place your hand skin to skin over your heart (the first touch a baby experiences during undisturbed birth)
-Wait for a heartbeat (visualise your heart beating if needed, or do star jumps until your blood is pumping!)
-Once you have heartbeat, ask your question out loud, then wait for an answer and write it down.

Asking out loud bypasses your conscious mind by tricking it into thinking you’re having a conversation…try it, it works as long as you’ve done the heartbeat step. Writing down the reply is a sign of respect for your intuition, plus it will help you to strengthen your psychic ability and confidence over time. We are evidence-based creatures and keeping a notebook of all your ‘hits’ will convince you that you are a magical being.

*See this post on holding space by fellow 29/11 Heather Plett, one of my writing coaches. See our interview. 

So – what do you do if the answer is ‘yes, this will give me life’, but you’re still anxious? Take an action immediately towards your desire, even if that means emailing at 3am in the morning (I draft my emails then sleep on them because I’m prone to burbling! Maybe give yourself a cupcake when you send it later.) Remember, a lack of confidence is simply a lack of helpful experience – judge yourself the 20th time you sing in public, not the 1st…

And – what if the answer is ‘no, this is not giving me life?’ Well, then it’s stealing your life-force and robbing the planet of your future contributions.

Would you sell your pet unicorn* for a hot dog, if you knew it was the only unicorn you’d ever have? Of course not. BIG red light. Please, read my post on can-openers.

Then ask out loud, ‘what do I need more and less of, to transform this into a positive exchange?’. Write down the ideas you get, be they images, words or feelings…then go for gold and make it happen.

Btw, I use the term unicorn in a metaphysical and economical sense – a unicorn is a privately held start up company valued at over $1 billion. Trust me, the wisdom you’ve accumulated over thousands of lifetimes is priceless, as is your wellness. You get one set of feet – it’s like having a pair of shoes for 80 years (time for a foot massage perhaps?!)

Fun fact – just after I published this post, I did a reading for someone who loves hot dogs but is coming to realise how precious her beautiful body is (!) The way you eat really is the way you live. We need to think of diets like fashion – often impractical and designed to sell us stuff! The little black dress approach is best – moderation, simplicity and comfort. Give your Future Self a chance.  See this post

Still unsure? Use this love note for the Soul to help you connect – I’m guessing you’ve seen this quoted, but never said it to yourself. I read this to a client the other day and it’s worth repeating until you feel the goosebumps of recognition:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of “A Course in Miracles” See my 2022 reading for her

Even better – change the ‘our’ and ‘we’ to ‘I’, so the words really go in!

e.g. “My deepest fear is not that I’m inadequate. My deepest fear is that I am powerful beyond measure. It is my light, not my darkness that most frightens me. I ask myself, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who am I not to be? I am a child of God. My playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around me.

I am meant to shine, as children do. I was born to make manifest the glory of God that is within me. It’s not just in me, it’s in everyone. And as I let my own light shine, I unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As I am liberated from my own fear, my presence automatically liberates others.”

Marianne is a 32/5 Freedom-seeker and Rebel lifepath in numerology, here to heal her voice and to teach diversity and truth-telling. Many of my mentors, including Caroline Byrd and my father are 32/5’s, as is J.K. Rowling (whose first Harry Potter book came out when she turned 32), and Ellen Degeneres (who started in TV at 32. Fun fact, I sent a reading to her after finding out she sees 11:11). Find your lifepath

I hope this post will help you to make 2018 the greatest year yet. We have never been so connected to Spirit and the 11:11 energies are pouring in to show us that collective success, is the only lasting success. I needed to share these techniques as I had a vision the other day while listening to Caroline Byrd’s meditation, of my final moments on Earth. Don’t worry, I had cookies and tea and Charlie was holding my hand, but it shocked me out of my inertia and self-pity. We all have 24/7 access to a Universe of healing, but need to use our free will too. On the last day of your life, you’d probably sell everything you have accumulated, for a few more moments with your loved ones – keeping that thought uppermost in your mind, will give you the steel you need to say No to intimidation and Yes to celebration.

Special thanks to:
Kris, for never doubting our Soulmate contract, Fiona McGary (another inspiring 5 lifepath) for your Grow with Humour workshop (see my 2015 stand-up comedy set). Your event helped me to break two months of writer’s block, especially when someone said that thinking about mortality each day can help us to prioritise our time better. Sue Larkey and Tony Attwood’s recent talk on Asperger’s Syndrome and Autism convinced me that, whether I have this gift pattern or not, it’s okay to be myself. Also, while I don’t always agree with Elizabeth Peru, I found her post on the Sunspot Solar Observatory shutdown on September 6, 2018, enlightening.  Glad we are all speaking up.

Transcript with time stamps – here’s the video again
2:09 11:11 Spirit signs build in intensity (i.e. the feather, brick or Mack truck) Many ppl had meltdowns in the past week due to Sunspots etc.
3:07 Developing your psychic ability doesn’t remove pain but helps you get quicker pain relief. I discuss Hawai’ian singer IZ (31/4 Heart Healer)
4:04 The benefits of connecting to ppl with your lifepath. How Tony Attwood’s tips on Asperger’s can help highly sensitive people.
5:25 3 questions to stop rubbish in your life – the impact of putting life expectancy as your first criteria for EVERYTHING. I mention Ian White (another 31/4)’s White Light Essences (11:11 energy) also the amazing Lotus Kruse and Deniz Akan
7:31 Sick of quick fixes/ one-night-stand type promises in the spiritual industry? We need to call people to account
9:07 HEAR is 80% of the word HEART. I talk you through a powerful meditation to find answers from your body11:11 The heart speaks through symbols and feelings. Why asking out loud tricks your head into allowing your intuition to speak.
12:49 Lack of confidence is a lack of helpful experience. Why selling your pet unicorn for a hot dog is a no-no! How your Soul wisdom is worth a billion
15:21 A revamp of Marianne Williamson’s quote on liberating yourself – my plot twist to maximise the goosebumps
18:38 I discuss 32/5s including Marianne, Caroline Byrd, Fiona McGary, Ellen, J.K. Rowling etc. Her first Harry Potter book came out just after her 32nd birthday (lifepath turning point age). Find your lifepath

Recommended Links
Class – Develop Your Intuition and Banish Self Doubt ($33)

Your 2018 Forecast – We Have Come to Build a Bridge, so Come Let’s Build
2018 Numerology Post – 3 Ways a Breakup is a Wake Up! How Your Ex Marks the Spot for Healing
7 Can-opener Relationships That Shocked Me Awake – Are You in One?
3 Ways That Letting People Down Can Raise You Up – How to Dissolve Your Fear of Rejection


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