How to Attract a Partner You’ll Love! The Secrets Behind Writing a Soulmate Wishlist

In this blog I cover how to write a romantic wishlist to attract a partner you’ll love! I’ve been in many great relationships over the years. I’ve had the hundred roses, tropical holidays, gifts, serenades and long walks on the beach – but none of those things compare to the contentment of being with someone who loves me for who I am, and who I am becoming.

That’s why I’m sharing what helped me to meet my husband and Soulmate Kris Anderson, so that you too can have a fantastic love life. That’s us with our son Forrest in the photo (taken 2016-2017). FYI, I’ve heard from at least one person who followed this blog and manifested her current husband 🙂

Here’s what helped me to heal my heart and meet my Soulmate:

-Writing a list of what I wanted in a partner and circling what I wasn’t being or doing – then adding those attitudes and activities into my life. We live in a fair world so if you want a sporty mate, you need to be fit enough to keep up with them! Similarly, if you want to meet a music lover, you’ll find them at a concert. It’s just plain maths.

-Throwing out letters and photos from previous partners. This was very cathartic for me. Until 2o12, I held onto almost every postcard, lolly wrapper etc. from my old relationships…No wonder I used to feel emotionally congested – my hoarding was telling the Universe that I thought I was washed up. I literally had to make room for new love to come in.

-Becoming consciously single (and ‘dating myself’) for three months. On June 12, 2012 I bought white bedsheets, put away my slinky clothes and started attending meditation talks and eating organic food. I also received acupuncture and network treatments to help me to process built up grief.

-Taking daily walks outside to freshen my perspective and lungs. Just as streetlamps only work when there’s a power supply, affirmations only come true if they have energy behind them. That’s why it’s incredibly important to build your ‘chi’ through laughter, breathwork, sleep, exercise and good food, because action always precedes results.

After two months of these practices, I knew that a partner was on the way. So I moved my bed away from the wall and bought another bedside table, because in Feng Shui, both partners should be able to access the bed easily and furniture should match. I also purchased some towels, a pink one for me and a brown one for my boyfriend-to-be…I felt that brown would suit him (it does!)

Apart from that, I wrote a revised list of what I was looking for in a partner (including the ‘faults’ I could put up with, like ‘may be messy’…because it’s better to be specific). I also attended the Landmark Forum (after a failed fling), which helped me to clear a lot of anger. To be honest, after doing further Landmark courses and looking into its founders, I wouldn’t go down that path again. I find counselling and energy healing way more effective and less hit-and-miss. More about courses that have changed my life

Then, on September 15, 2012 (3 days after my 3 month break finished), I met someone awesome while filming my first TV segment. His name is Kris and we are made for each other. It was Divine intervention meeting Kris at my second big psychic talk and it confirmed for me that I was on track with my life purpose. Kris had just started his role in TV two weeks earlier so really, we hit the jackpot in our careers and love life at the same time.

A few months after this I found the list I made before meeting Kris – amazingly almost everything was spot on. The only criteria Kris didn’t meet was ‘being the same height as me’ – while he is tall, Kris has a curved spine which makes him appear shorter. This is a good thing because now I wear flats more often, which I prefer. The Universe always knows what’s best.

So, if you are single, my invitation to you is to light a candle and write a Soulmate wishlist next New Moon, of all the qualities you would like (and some of the ‘faults’ you could live with) in a partner. New Moons are the best time to call in new beginnings. Google moon calendar (your city) to find out when the next one begins.

Buy my Detox Relationships Meditation to clear your energy and complete with your ex-partners and others (AUD15)

Then read this list out loud and put it somewhere you can see it. Your Angels will get to work quickly so be prepared for some surprises! This exercise also works if you are in a relationship – just write how you would like the relationship to improve. The more energy you put into visualising the results and taking action, the quicker the Universe will meet you halfway.

Don’t forget:
-To put ‘I ask for this or something better for my highest good’ at the bottom of the page. This gives your Angels a chance to exceed your expectations.
-You still need to ‘be’ the person you want to meet or date! Wild birds meet each other flying, not hiding underground 🙂

For more on how to meet your Soulmate, visit my friend Cimone-Louise’s website. She has published a wonderful book called Saying Yes to Love, and talks about writing her romance wishlist here. She is a 29/11 Lifepath Spiritual Messenger like me. Find your lifepath

Recommended Links (updated 2019)
I see 11:11, So Where the Heck’s My Twin Flame? 3 Reasons to Relax
10 Things You Didn’t Know About Kris Anderson, my 11:11 Soulmate
If I Can Find Love, So Can You – Three Tips for Turning Your Failures Into Triumphs
6 Myths About Soulmates, Busted!
Make Your Day a Miracle (manifestation tips)

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Michelle Brown on Monday, 6 October 2014 3:50 PM
Such great advice Sarah. It has changed my whole perspective today. I haven’t written my wish list yet (except a little bit in my head). Doing those things I want in my partner and becoming consciously single resonate a lot with me. Oh, and I have been looking for a PD course similar to EQ Events (I know of others but they are more geared to putting you into crisis situations to see how you react …. these haven’t really appealed. Thanks for the tip.
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